Read this!The ballgag is a great sign of trust. It takes away her ability to speak, but more than that, it takes away her option to speak her safe word. She trusts that you will respect her limits. She trusts that you will abuse her, but not anymore than she can safely take. It’s a sign of trust, but more than that, it’s a sign of love. Of respect. She knows that you are her Master, and that you will not give her anymore than she can handle.
Do not abuse that trust. No matter what.