I could not have said it better myself!!!
A Dominant cannot always read your mind.
If you want to be choked, ask for it.
If you want to be flogged, beg.
If you want to be ravaged, plead.
If you want cock, earn it.
So many subs have such a hard time asking for what they want. They are embarrassed ashamed, or unsure of how others will react.
As cute as your embarrassment can be, it can also be frustrating to both parties and lead down a nasty path on which no one gets what they want.
So, if you want training, to be bound, to be exposed, to be used, ravaged, and made to be a little slut, get on your knees and beg for it.